Thursday, July 15, 2010

现代孩子太好命?


老公经常投诉这个年代的孩子太受保护,完全经不起一丝打击,豪无自立能力。

我告诉老公,社会越进步,治安就越来越糟糕,人的品行也肯定越来越退步。

现今社会不再容许我们像以往那样在外自由活动;以前一个人在外散步或溜狗也不怕后面有人用木棍或头盔突击;女孩们不用日夜担心转角处有个色狼或变态佬等着扑身过来,(以前最多是被人胸击或遇上露体狂);男人不必担心上错德士被司机打劫,女人不怕遇到变态司机而分分钟断送性命,而且最近还听闻有个年轻受害者和变态德士司机联手干案,干掉自己的朋友,是吗?唉,真的是朋友也信不过。

现在的没钱人家也会遭绑架,所以不只是有钱人家才需要提心吊胆。最惨的是有些绑匪并非为钱而来,而是抓了小孩后再把他们断手脚,摆放路边行乞,多残暴。。。那些无良的迷魂党总是在街头寻找猎物,手无寸铁的老妇人往往是他们的最爱,他们也知道女人钱较容易骗吧。。

其实,不只在外头才有危机潜伏。

家门没锁好,跑来个神经病人拿刀砍人,婴儿孩童也不放过,连幼稚园也被突袭。在户外除草修理水管也被劫匪攻击。打工族父母请个外籍女佣得同时担心佣人对孩子或老人家施暴!

想想看,以前的家庭哪需要安装CCTV?平时铁门大开也不怕强匪不请自来。现在?装了CCTV也无可奈何。

所以,现代社会还有什么事情不可能发生的?谁不怕啊?

现代年轻人学不会独立自主,全因父母亲从孩子出世那一天开始就得寸步不离的守在身边,以防他们遇害。有谁希望因一时疏忽而失去身边的至亲?

所以我告诉老公,这不能怪当父母的人太保护孩子,更不能怪被保护的孩子们没有自立能力。大家都是身在江湖,由不得自己啊!


5 comments:

  1. TRUE... true... i agree... partly bcz my life has been set for me...

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  2. Jennie, you should still be thankful to your parent, they making your life easier than others who need to struggle without help from anyone.

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  3. Honestly, I am very grateful of what my parents have done for me, but at d same time spoon feeding me isn't going to help me much and I believe I am capable of doing things on my own and making decisions while consulting them for their opinions. If i get everything too easily, follow the path they have set for me and not being able to make my own decisions,I won't know what I am capable of doing.

    I think life is all about facing challenges and we learn from struggling to survive and know HOW to survive hardships.

    Well, that is a personal opinion though.

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  4. 孩子需要的空间,有时过于安排反而会弄巧反拙。每个人都有生存的潜能,在成长的过程中,跌跌碰碰,在所难免。随缘。

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  5. 谢祥珲和Jennie的留言!

    我会借用您们以上的想法写一篇部落格,分享一下我对事情的看法。

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